August 10th, 2010
Varying Perceptions of Mens Wedding Rings
Although the wearing of mens wedding rings is becoming increasing more common today, it is a relatively recent change and is still not entirely accepted by many men. It has nearly always been traditional for woman to wear wedding rings and there are records of an exchange of rings at wedding ceremonies way back to the times of ancient Egypt. Anyway, it was rare for a man to wear a wedding ring following a marriage ceremony until after the Second World War. Wearing a wedding ring means stating publicly that you are married and, while this has rarely been seen as a problem for women, many men are less than happy to advertise the fact that they are married.
Around the time of World War II, men’s wedding rings became much more popular. This was due to soldiers using them as a comforting symbol of what they were fighting for. Knowing that a loved one was back home waiting for them made it much easier for the men to survive the harsh conditions of the war. Seeing soldiers wearing male wedding rings allowed men to feel much more comfortable with the idea of wedding rings for men. Nowadays men can be proud to wear their wedding rings and proud of what the male wedding rings symbolized. Another reason that many men have had difficulty with the idea of wearing male wedding rings is because of what the ring symbolizes. Men typically have a hard time with making a commitment in a relationship. The ring is a constant reminder to the men that they must be committed to their marriage.
It is not so much that men are afraid of cheating on their wives, but rather commitment in general is often a scary concept to them. Some men have a fear of wearing a mens wedding rings because they are concerned about it causing a danger. For example, in carpentry and other work, the ring can begin to hurt your finger if you will be using your hands a lot.